13 July 2014

6 paradoxes that get students ahead in school…and life

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Like many teachers, I have taught hundreds of students over the years. Given the small classes that define the institutions I am based at, I have relatively intimate interaction with my students. Over the years, I have observed certain traits that make some students stand out over the others. These students may not necessarily be the top students but they do come close. In some of them, you can see highly visible improvements when you chart their progress from day one to the last day of class. They started the class as perceived dark horses but ended up close to the front when the final grades are released.

What makes these students so different from the rest of the cohort? My observation has shown that specific gender, educational and financial backgrounds have no direct influence on their traits. These are a special breed of students whom I feel every student has the potential to emulate. These are traits that can be learned if one possesses the attitude to follow through with it. The following traits are paradoxes – seemingly contradictory but strong in harmony. Allow me to explain:   


1) They listen but ask questions
When I mean listen, I mean that they both hear what I have to say in class (or instructions in my handouts) and can repeat to me exactly what I said to them. After listening, they digest and then ask questions based on the instructions I had provided. Such questions tend to be of high quality and a reflection of a well thought through process. To me, this is true intelligence. Interestingly, leadership guru and professor Warren Bennis is quoted as saying that failure to listen is the most common reason why CEOs fail. (http://iveybusinessjournal.com/departments/from-the-editor/in-conversation-warren-bennis#.U8FPifmSzT8)


2) They are persistent but know when to let go
Some years back, I have an reliable source who related a story of a group of military commandos from a certain Asian country who decided to participate in the Langkawi Ironman triathlon competition. These hardened soldiers were determined to complete the race in good time. However, the group was divided into two camps – those who believed in pushing through regardless of whatever their body was signalling to them; versus those who trained smart and gave themselves self-imposed checkpoints along the route both slow down into a lower gear and to measure their heart rate. Guess who posed the better time? Worse still, the former group ended up crossing the finish line totally exhausted and rather unglamorously.

Students can be very driven – and that is a great trait. However, one must know when to step back and either re-group or let go so that they can focus on more important issues. So you messed up on a project. Forget about the grades lost and look towards the next one. Students who are not able to let go end up bitter and hurt themselves and those around them.


3) They pay attention to detail but focus on the big picture
Very few people pay attention to detail. In the real world, this can cause the loss of profits or even life itself. And then there are those who pay too much attention on the details that they miss the woods for the trees. This takes some practice, but one must first pay attention to detail. Once the details are acknowledged and digested, the student must pull him or herself back and question whether the details make sense and where they fit in the bigger scale of things. This is by no means easy and is a concerted effort on the part of the individual. I have seen students do this, especially in times of stress. Observing from the side, it can be quite a joy to watch such leadership in action.


4) They are comfortable being different but are team players
In a university, you get all kinds of students. But very few are comfortable in their own skin. Many try to emulate others just because others are doing it. For instance, Sally sees that Mary is heading towards the library. Mary tells Sally that she is heading there to study. Sally feels insecure and loudly declares that she is going there later to do the same. The problem? Final exams have just ended last week!

And then there are those who are just rebels without a cause, wanting to be different, just because. While it takes some courage to overcome peer pressure, there are those who are able to do it in a way that is neither offensive nor snobbish. In fact, these students are great motivators and encouragers in their teams, helping the rest overcome their insecurities but yet not succumbing to them.


5) Confident but not complacent
I have come across many confident students. They are truly confident and not putting on a show. But my observation shows that confidence can many times lead to complacency. This is the reason why groups who do well in assignments early in the semester usually do worse towards the end. The converse is also quite true. Groups who are consistent throughout the semester always check themselves and keep each other on their toes. They are high self-monitors and regularly approach me to find out if they are on the right track – despite their good performance earlier on. This shows humility, knowing that they cannot let their guard down. If you find such students, treasure them – they are gems.


6) They take risks but hedge against setbacks
Part of my grading allows for some liberty in taking risks. Students are encouraged to think big and go big and success means rewards. But they must watch their step lest they fail spectacularly. There are those who recklessly take risks, ending up incurring my rebuke. “But you asked us to take risks,” they refrain. In such a case, I suggest they duck before my flying shoe hits their head.

The art to taking risk is to protect your downside as what Sir Richard Branson advocates. Using the simple example of investing, you set aside some money from your salary to invest in whatever instrument you desire. But you protect your downside (which in this case means losing all of your investment money) by first making sure you pay off all debts; cover expenses; and budget for savings. This is when you start making investments and you can do so without losing sleep should all of your investment is lost in a worst case scenario.

As an educator, I wish the very best for my students and hope they be more successful than me in life. Times are a changing though and it is essential that students learn skills to adapt while they are in school before they make it out there into what can be a very unforgiving world. If I may, here’s a framework for those who are keen on creating a foundation to fulfil all the above traits. I recommend the Boyd Loop, also known as the OODA Loop; and Warren Bennis’ ALA Loop.

OODA – Observe, Orient, Decide, Act

ALA – Act, Learn, Adapt

Integrating them, we have the OODALA Loop:


Observe, Orient, Decide, Act, Learn, Adapt


Here’s to the start of a great university journey!

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